They Ate the Elephant
A young couple scheduled a coaching consultation with me. They had questions. They needed wisdom. Here was their dilemma: They needed to buy a replacement vehicle soon, but they didn't have any money. Everyone in their lives told them to get a car loan. Their parents told them. Their friends told them. Their co-workers told them. Their neighbors told them. The cultural undercurrent was clear: they should just get a big car loan and quickly buy the vehicle they want. Yet, all the while, this idea didn't sit well with them. They had this wild inclination that a big, fat car payment would somehow hinder their ability to live a free and meaningful life. Thus, they scheduled a meeting with me.
The car they were considering cost $35,000 (new). A six-year loan would cost around $580/month. This felt heavy, and understandably so. My first question was why that particular vehicle. They talked about reliability, longevity, and common practice. After reading some reviews and discussing alternative options, we concluded we could find a suitable alternative in the $20,000 range. It was a different model, slightly used, with some miles on it. That step alone was a game-changer.
Next, we needed to figure out how to pay for it. They could easily go to the bank and get a loan, but they wanted to avoid debt (and perpetual payments) if possible. They had very little cash, so $20,000 still seemed unattainable. There's an expression that goes something like this: "There's only one way to eat an elephant: one bite at a time." Thus, we needed a plan. Given their existing car situation, we decided they could push this decision off for upwards of two years. Therefore, they set a plan to pare down their budget and save $1,000/month for 20 months. If they could do that, they would have enough cash set aside within two years to buy the vehicle.
This still felt insurmountable, but they were crazy enough to try. It took intentionality and persistence, but they ended up doing it in 19 months. $20,000 of cash in hand! They eventually decided to save for a few more months and ended up with about $22,000.
You know what they did next? They did exactly what everyone else told them they shouldn't do. They paid cash for a car. A car they could afford. A car that would suit their needs while also allowing them to live a free life. They ate the elephant!
Don't fall for the trap. There are better ways to live out our finances. Harder ways, but better ways. Patience. Delayed gratification. Humility. This young couple is so glad they took the path less traveled. They are living for meaning first, and it's a joy to watch. You deserve the same!
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