The Night Test
A friend recently asked me how we can know if we're taking too much risk. There are, of course, many different ways to measure risk. Probabilities, standard deviations, risk/return ratios, historical averages, and loss severities, to name a few. Each has its own application and merit. However, I have a simple test that I apply to my own life, and challenge clients to apply to theirs.
It's one simple question: Do you sleep well at night?
If the answer is yes, we're probably good. If the answer is no, we need to reassess our decisions. Far too often, people make decisions that keep them up at night. What if this happens? What if that happens? What if, what if, what if? That's a tell-tale sign we're doing something that we shouldn't.
It's quite difficult to live a meaning over money life when we're constantly haunted by our financial decisions. I've been there!! There have been plenty of times in my life when I made financial decisions that impaired my sleep. The debt, certain investments, reducing my emergency fund too far, not having enough cushion in my checking account, and not properly saving for upcoming (known or unknown) expenses. Each of these questionable decisions hindered my financial stability and jeopardized my ability to live a meaningful life.
It's not that money is the most important thing in our lives (it's not!), but our finances leak into every aspect of our lives. If we're feeling tension in our money, we feel it literally everywhere. In our marriage, in our work, in our parenting, in our hobbies, and even in our faith. You deserve better than that!!
Do I sleep well at night? I think about this question a lot. If my answer is "no," I must make a change. There's no reason to have that sort of tension and affliction in our day-to-day lives. Sometimes, it's unavoidable, but often, it's in our power to act. If so, then act.
I've had to unwind so many decisions in my life to find peace. It can be frustrating, time-consuming, and embarrassing, but it's worth it! If you find yourself in a financial situation that's keeping you up at night, I encourage you to act. Make a shift. Give yourself peace. Refocus on the meaning.
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