Oh, I Have Landmines!
Yesterday's post landed hard with many, but one particular response triggered today's piece. "Travis, how did you manage to avoid all the landmines?" It never occurred to me that some people think I speak from a position of having lived a stellar and unblemished financial life. It reminds me that I need to share my early adulthood story again soon. There are so many new readers who don't yet know about my brutal failings.
Today, I want to share the story of one of my landmines. Surprise, it involves a car! Heading into college, I drove a 13-year-old Honda Civic (with old-school flip-up headlights). I paid $2,000 for that car, and it was shockingly reliable. It wasn't pretty, but it was mine and got the job done (it had a pretty sweet stereo, too!).
However, before my second year of college, my parents suggested I upgrade my car to more reliably manage my 4-hour drives between home and college. I don't remember disagreeing with this idea, as I think a modest breeze would have pushed me over the edge to purchase a cooler car. Thus, the car shopping began.
Almost any car would have been better than my existing car. At that point, it was probably worth $500-$1,000 and had a ton of miles on it. My options were unlimited! Wanna know what I landed on? I purchased a 2-year-old Acura Integra. Black with black leather, stick shift, fully loaded. It was so awesome! Oh yeah, and it cost $19,000. I don't think thatnumber does my stupidity justice. Adjusting for inflation, that's the equivalent of an 19-year-old buying a $40,000 car today. Wow, just wow. I, of course, didn't have the money for this purchase…..I was a broke college kid with little cash. That's the moment the destructive debt cycle started to churn in my life. In making that purchase, I signed up for years of monthly payments that I needed to make via an on-campus job. I was going to work anyway, but in hindsight, there were lots of things I would rather have spent that money on.
That single decision set the table for what would eventually be dozens of terrible decisions....more landmines. After all, stepping on one landmine makes us more susceptible to stepping on another.
The question to answer today is how to reverse the landmine cycle. Here's what I did:
First, realize you stepped on one. We can't fix what don't know is broken. It took me years to realize I screwed up…..but better late than never.
Second, commit to avoiding these types of future landmines at all costs. For me, that meant deciding I would NEVER use debt to buy a car again....ever.
Third, we must pay the price to actually heal the damage. In my case, that meant paying off the car and subsequently saving up cash to eventually buy a different vehicle. Further, I needed to humble myself and eventually downgrade cars. The following car I bought was a $10,000 Honda Accord….with cash.
That entire mess took 8 years to clean up, but it's a landmine I will never step on again. It's ok if you've screwed up, but it's time to clean up the mess and move on. Trust me, it's beautiful on the other side.
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