Walking Looks Crazy to a Crawler
Raising twins is a trip. To be honest, I don’t know any other version of parenting than having two kids the same age. Being a dad to these two little boys has been one of the greatest blessings of my life. While flying home from Texas last night, I was thumbing through old pictures and videos. Parents, you know what I’m talking about! While on my little nostalgic adventure, I stumbled on something I hadn’t seen before. Well, it’s a video I’ve seen dozens of times, but a detail in the background has escaped me until now.
The subject of the video is Pax walking for the first time. It’s a precious video, and I’m grateful I was present for his first steps. But last night, I couldn’t get over what happened in the background. There was Finn, witnessing the event unfolding. He was watching, but he had a look of absolute bewilderment. To Finn, Pax might as well have been using magic or voodoo. As an avid crawler himself, watching his twin brother walk for the first time looked mind-bogglingly crazy.
Today, as a first grader, it’s safe to say the act of walking has been normalized for Finn. It’s been many years since he’s even thought about the process involved in putting one foot in front of the other. He eventually graduated to running, then jumping, then becoming a little ninja. Yet, back then, it was the craziest thing he had ever seen.
So many things in life are like this. I have financial habits I’ve been doing for so long that it’s simply muscle memory now. On the flip side, I can meet with a 40-something who looks at these habits with the same bewilderment Finn had all those years ago. Walking looks crazy to a crawler. Truth is, we all have to crawl at something before we can walk. Getting on a budget. Paying off debt. Investing in retirement. Giving. Running a business. The list goes on and on.
I just met with a young couple I have been coaching for about six months. They had a TON of debt…..more than $100,000 of student loans. When we started working together, all of this money stuff was foreign to them. They didn’t know where to start. I suggested they begin by crawling. We created their first budget….scary! I challenged them to pay off $700 of student loan debt that first month…..scary! They were crawling. Fast forward six months, and they now consider budgeting second nature. They also paid off $5,000 of debt just last month. They are running! And just like little Finny man once he learned to run, you’ll never catch them. They are off to the races!
Please let this be your encouragement today. Yes, there are things in your world that feel intimidating and uncomfortable. But trust me, if you have the courage to give it a shot, you’ll quickly progress from crawling, to walking, and maybe even running.