Solving Problems With Problems
One of my friends asked to meet with me. He wanted to get a second opinion about something financial-related. Here's the situation. For the first time in nearly 15 years, his wife's car was paid off. They owned it free and clear and finally got on the other side of the monthly payment cycle now that their $500/month payment is no longer. That's great news! HOWEVER, they have a problem. In the past few months, his wife's car had to be taken into the shop twice. The total cost? $700.
Here was his question to me: "Would it be a good idea to get her a new vehicle?"
"Absolutely not!" I responded.
"Why not? You think we should just keep dumping money into this vehicle?"
"Dumping money? Paying $700 to get your car fixed is $300 less than you would have spent on car payments over the last few months."
"Well, we already bought her a new vehicle. It will definitely be more reliable."
"..........."
Turn out, he didn't want my guidance.....he wanted me to affirm the decision they had already made. In short, freaked out by two vehicle repairs totaling $700, they quickly decided to "fix" the problem by buying a brand-new vehicle. The kicker? Their new payment is $900 per month.
Please allow me to summarize. This family finally gets free from their $500/month car payment cycle, experiences $700 of maintenance expenses, and in their attempt to lower their costs, commit themselves to $900/month for the next 72 months. On top of that, due to their increased financial commitments, they decided his wife needs to go from part-time to full-time at her job. Further, they wonder if they should forego their annual summer vacation to cut costs.
If this sounds crazy to you, good. If this sounds far-fetched to you, you'd be mistaken. This is a very typical sequence of events in our modern culture. My friend isn't alone....far from it. In fact, many people's immediate reaction to this post will be to side with the husband. "He's just making sure his family is safe." "They'll save money in the long run." "They didn't have a choice."
They did solve the small reliability problem, but at what cost? They've largely prevented ongoing vehicle maintenance costs; all they had to give up was their freedom and memories. I'm all for solving problems, but not when it creates bigger problems.
I have maximum empathy for this family. I love them. I care for them. I desire for them to have better. I shared some insights and ideas, and in turn, they said I should share this story on the blog. Tomorrow's post will dive deeper into one of my ideas.
I hope you solve some of your problems this week, but along the way, be sure not to create newer, bigger problems in the process.
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