Right Thing, Right Reasons

When I left my prior career and started my coaching business, I promised myself I would always be honest with people. If I could serve them well, I’d tell them. But if I wasn’t the right person for the job, I also needed to share that. I refer to it as doing the right thing for the right reason. It’s not uncommon to meet with a person or a couple and, for one reason or another, know I’m not the right person to serve them. Sometimes it’s a stylistic difference. Sometimes they aren’t fully bought in. Somtimes they don’t want it bad enough. Sometimes they need something different than what I offer. And sometimes, they simply don’t need me at all. 

This idea reminds me of one particular conversation. It was a couple nearing retirement, with kids grown and living their own lives. As we unpacked their situation and questions, I immediately knew they shouldn’t hire me. They were killing it! They had made so many wise choices over the years, and it showed. During that conversation, I was able to give them a few tips, make a few recommendations/referrals, and affirm so much of what they were already doing. I ended the conversation with something to the effect of, “I would be honored to serve you, but if I were you, I wouldn’t hire me. You’re not going to get your money’s worth.” I’m not trying to hurt myself, but I so much believe in doing the right thing for the right reasons. They shouldn’t have hired me…..and they didn’t!

But something happened. I ended up serving one of their grown kids (plus spouse). I cherish that coaching relationship, and this young couple is doing some amazing work. I’m so grateful I get to help add value to their lives. Oh yeah, another thing happened as well. The man I told not to hire me, he and I have become friends. I deeply value his input and insights. He’s a funny guy with an infectious zest for life. He has more life wisdom and experience in his pinky than I have in my entire body. I learn from him about parenting, marriage, careers, and meaning. All this because of one stranger-meets-stranger conversation; a conversation in which I told him not to hire me.

Never underestimate the power of doing the right thing for the right reasons. The right thing is always the right thing. This applies to money, work, ministry, relationships, parenting, and everywhere else! You might not immediately benefit from it, but you’ll ALWAYS win in the long run. 

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