It’s Not Gonna Kill You

Never underestimate a person’s ability to justify overspending. Despite all the pitfalls and perils of overshooting our budget, as well as the warning signs as we approach the end of our rope, we still find ways to work our way into irresponsible decisions.

There’s one specific example that gets thrown in my face as an example of why we must overlook the boundaries and simply act. “Travis, what if you need to buy groceries but are out of grocery money? Just not buy groceries?!?!”

Yes, correct. That’s exactly what I’m suggesting. It’s not gonna kill you. In 99% of situations, there’s enough collective food in the pantry, fridge, and freezer to make it through. It won’t be fun. It won’t be convenient. And it might not be tasty. But it’s absolutely a feasible approach to the situation.

I can tell you from experience that this approach sucks, but is effective. It’s effective for a few reasons. First, it teaches discipline. If there’s one area we’ll want to bend the rules, it’s this. If we draw a line in the sand here, we establish a principle and willpower that carries deeper and broader.

Also, since the consequences of our failed budget or failed execution completely sucks, we incentivize ourselves to learn from the experience and do better next time.

Third, we learn grit. We do hard things because we’ve done hard things. And we do them together. We persevere, fight for the cause, and endeavor to do what it takes to meet our goals.

I’m so grateful for those crappy months when Sarah and I screwed up our grocery budget so royally that we had to white-knuckle pantry dive for a few weeks. It’s happened more than once, and each time was as painful as the last. But it was so, so good for us. The habits and principles it set in our life are priceless, and are partially responsible for the life we have today.

It’s not gonna kill you.